"All men/women are the same"?
Talking about this really breaks my heart sometimes. It's absolutely devastating to see someone say 'All men/women are the same." That's like saying all Muslims are terrorist. I want 3 kids when i get older and I NEVER want them too feel that way. That is a form of sexism no matter how you put it. I don't care for the reasoning behind it.
People hate Muslims because they are assumed terrorists but is it right? Of course it's not but neither is "All men/women are the same." It truly makes me sad because it's hatred and/or pre-judgement. You looking for roses but steady picking dandelions and then you get mad when the dandelion doesn't magically become a rose.
In my entire life, I got rejected by 15 women and never heard "yes." I could just as easily say "All woman are snobs." When have you ever heard me say "All women are snobs."? I'll wait............ Oh yeah, because I never did. It makes you unattractive so when the right guys comes, he's going to walk away.
If I said "All women are snobs." I would become a bitter old man preaching to other lonely guys and now they are believing what I say is true. That is how racism, sexism, and ageism is born. How about we preach about understanding, love, and forgiveness so that we can change the world. It takes one person to start it, but it take multiple people to keep it going.
"If he truly loves me, he'll deal with me." EVERYONE has a limit no matter the motivation. At some point, they'll break down and give up. Yes, it is her/his job to show you different BUT it's also your job to give them a chance to show you different.
What if you were on the receiving end of it? What if a perfect guy was looking at you but he stopped looking at you once you said "All guys are x." He's going to say "She's going to definitely say no so I'm not going to try to date her." Life isn't about the amount of breathes you take, it's about the amount of moments that takes your breathe away.
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