Debate about Mixed Gender violence
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Lately, I've been seeing a debate on facebook about whether a man have the right to hit a woman IF she hits him first.
My Mom always told me "When a woman hits a man, she hit him because she think he won't hit back." So, my Mom tells me to hit her back. My Dad, on the other hand, says to never hit women no matter what. My belief is a bit of both sides except that I don't differentiate between a male and female. I'll always try to walk away if possible from any fight. If you are following me then there is a serious problem that is about to blow up. Before I saw anything else...
Ladies, I'm not saying all of you believe this but maybe you can shed some light on this for me. if we are equal (which I'm not denying), why is it that when this topic pops up, a lot of girls say "we are the weaker gender blah blah blah." I mean, was the whole point of feminism and stuff was to show you are as good as us? Again, I'm not denying that you are equal but if you're equal you have to be fully equal. Let me put it this way.
From where I'm sitting, it sounds like "Don't hit us back because we are the weaker gender. We should be able to hit you and you do nothing. We are the weaker gender but don't tell us that because we like to think we are your equal. We can't control ourselves so we want you to pay for our inability to control ourselves. You should never hit a woman."
Again, I believe we should have equal rights. I'm not denying it nor am I saying we shouldn't be equal.
How about this? Don't hit ANYONE. Stop differentiating men and women if they are supposed to be equal in rights. If a woman has the right to hit a man in defense, why can't the man do the same? I know there are Morales and I have high Morales and I don't see the morality in that. Feminists always complain they are not the weaker gender but they claim they are the weaker gender when stuff like this happens. I believe what my Mom said. "When a woman hits a man, she hit him because she think he won't hit back." It bothers me because people act like it's okay. "Psssh, oh, well, you know, morals are in place so you can't defend yourself."
Now, I don't have any grudge with females. I met some really nice ones and some really mean ones. Double-standards bother me and I mean both ways. Meaning, I hate all double-standard ideas that exist. You are either equal or you're not. I'm not saying males and females are EXACTLY the same as in emotions and such but when it come to rights, yes, it should 100% be the same.
Everyone has the right to defend themselves, period. This "man shouldn't hit a woman" thing is crazy because you are robbing a man his right to defend himself. 
Clarification: I have no grudge against women and I'm not generalizing all women.
What do you think? 
If you're a man, would you ever hit a woman?
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