UberMedic7

I could rant about things day and night, dont worry about that and i could do that here again but im not sure, i can always be reached in places like twitter (@UberMedic7) or even discord for hot takes on anything. I do wish i could just fully commit on RM stuff and actually make stuff instead of thinking of concepts alone.

Many things can change within a week or a month, let alone six years. Looking at the past can be fun but sometimes its pretty embarrassing, it was more like the latter for me when i dropped back here again after so long. I deleted or hidden most of my old stuff, for the better, trust me. I've said many things in varying degrees of stupid, but at least i've grown and know just how stupid this all was, im not perfect yet but i did improve. So yeah this post is a sort of catch-up for the few people that interacted with me in this community. Im not dead just life taking you places and also realising how stupid you once were. I also own an apology to certain people that actually expected things from me but never heard from me since, super late but sorry.... I wont make any promises for anything because god knows if i can keep them, but lets just say things will be different from now on.

Like i said before, if that person cannot be trusted as your partner, why be trusted as your friend?

It really varies with each person and situation. Here's a prime example. I used to date this girl, we were doing great but she eventually broke up with me but at that moment, she was begging me in tears to stay friends with me, even though i didnt felt like it was a good idea i agreed but as it turns out, she really was just lying yet again and forgot about me for good not to mention she havent really talked to me since, and that hurt me even more. So personally, no its not a good idea. Why? Because if you broke up with that person, there was a reason behind it, good or bad, so if they dont make a good boyfriend/girlfriend, why they can make a good friend in general?

As a great, big, black man once said, Respect has to be earned, just like money, but sadly there's people out there regardless of age that will always falsely think of high of themselves therefore treading others like shit. When it comes to relatives i cant give a proper answer, since the most interaction with relatives i have is my parents. But it is nonsense when the "kid's" of the family turn into the family's chew toy. "Hey X go get us that, Hey X why didnt you say hello? Hey X! We going out for dinner with your uncle" This whole "Join us in this family activities because i said so" ye, its pretty stupid. If we want to we'll do so. Now for people in general, personally in all my school life (and even now in the classes i take) almost nobody had any respect for me, they would make fun of my last name at best. Now you probably think "then how do you deal with this?" Short answer is: Waiting. Long answer is: Yes, its annoying and i with i could but them down once and for all, but on a realistic take, trying to earn the respect of disrespectful people doesnt worth it, people respect others for their values, not because they chance or adapt or showoff for something they're not. For example when a girl likes you she respects you as a guy and because of your unique looks/nature/attitude therefor liking you. Your friends respect you because they know who your truly are and they're not stuck in theories about you that are not real. I know it can be difficult to endure disrespectful people, believe me i do but all you can do is pay as less attention as possible, and as i say (or heard it somewhere) The opposite of love is not hate, is ignorance. Why i say this? Well its simple, hatred will get you nowhere, but ignoring one is way better. For one to hate one it takes time and effort which im sure you dont wanna waste on such people, and ignorance on the other hand is better and more effective, a bit difficult to achieve sure but it's worth it.